Twelve Step members are taught to “just do the footwork and stay out of the
results,” and even that “the results are none of my business.” Eckhart Tolle (1997)
actually traces this practice all the way back to “Karma yoga” of Hinduism. The
actual practice appears to consist of withdrawing or setting aside the will for a
future outcome as an object of attention and effort, focusing instead on the realtime experience of doing what one is doing. An AA member also learns to “let go
and let God” or “turn it over.” The practice of theistic surrender targets the same
“evils” of will (to control outcome, to be there, not here) and ego that “washing
the dish to wash the dish” would train out of the Buddhist. In fact, living in the
present with an attitude of service, is the consistent “fruit” of surrender as an
experience and a practice. When we surrender what has already happened, and let
the same “higher power” decide what will happen, we are left to deal only with the
unfolding present. Surrender also replaces both material attachment and aversion
with a “higher power.”
Twe l v e St e p Sloga ns
Probably the most obvious and explicit AA mindful practice is the determination
to live “one day at a time.” While the bell of mindfulness may call the Buddhist to
the living, breathing moment, “one day at a time” reigns the sober alcoholic in to
the broader boundaries of a full day, this one. Future-tripping and catastrophizing
are short-circuited by: “Wait a minute! What can I do about that today? Have I
done it? If the answer is ‘yes’, the rest is irrelevant. If ‘no’, I get to work.” This
practice is a simple and powerful way to bring the mind back from the imaginary,
high-stress future to its much more manageable present. As to abstaining from
alcohol or drugs or any other “fix,” the reminder that one only has to deal with
one day of “deprivation” greatly reduces the agonizing specter of life as an endless
desert with no oasis. This humble tool of coming back to the present day has kept
millions of alcoholics sober
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